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Tue Sep 21 23:30:53 2004 from
Teresa Kellerman <
From: Arizona, USA
Relationship: FASDAY and Faslink
Child: Yes, John
Ann, you are now our angel. Your bright smile, your great sense of humor, your courage to advocate, your love for Sinja, your commitment to raise FASD awareness are all gifts that you gave to us, gifts of your spirit that will live on in our hearts.
Wed Sep 22 05:45:46 2004 from
Hentgen Viviane <faseurope@yahoo.de>
From: Luxembourg
Relationship: she was a friend of mine
Child: yes
Now she's walking thru the clouds With a circus mind That's running wild Butterflies and zebras And moonbeams and fairytales All she ever thinks about is riding with the wind When I'm sad she comes to me With a thousand smiles She gives to me free It's alright it's alright she says Take anything from me Anything Fly little wing... so many wings here in Europe,Ann,we shall go on bye,bye little butterfly in love Vivi
Wed Sep 22 11:14:26 2004 from
Sigrid Reinhardt <fasdDeutschland@yahoo.de>
From: Germany
Relationship: Ann's Secret Service
Child: Sarah, 18
Dear Ann! What can I write, to explain your personality, your charme, your kindness und very, very great humour? Was kann ich schreiben, um Deine Persönlichkeit, Deinen Charme, Deine Freundlichkeit und Deinen übergroßen Humor zu beschreiben? You are the friend I never had, my mentor, my teacher, often without words. Du bist die Freundin, die ich nie hatte, meine Mentorin, meine Lehrerin, oft ohne Worte. As I get to know you, in November 2001, me and my family are burned out about the trouble with our daughter. Als ich dich im November 2001 per mail kennen lernte, war unsere Familie ausgebrannt durch die Probleme mit unserer Tochter. You teached us with your sensibility and experience, that it was not our guilt for the troubles, that it was not the guilt of our daughter and so on, not her mothers guilt. Du lehrtest uns mit Deinem Feingefühl und Sachkenntnis, dass wir nicht Schuld an den Problemen sind, dass auch unsere Tochter keine Schuld trägt und ebenso wenig ihre Mutter. In appreciation for your help I began to learn, how to help other. First I had only a few courage, but holding our little FAS-Star Tatti on 4th FASDay and see your engagement and personality, that was the kick I needed. Aus Dankbarkeit für Deine Hilfe begann ich zu lernen, anderen zu helfen. Anfangs hatte ich nur wenig Mut und Selbstwertgefühl, aber, unseren kleinen FAS-Star Tatti am 4. FAS-Tag zu halten und zu dein Engagement und deine Persönlichkeit zu erleben, das gab mir den Mut, den ich brauchte. You gave me so much! You gave me your trust! You gave me your love for the FASD-Children! You gave me more, than I can write in so short sentenses. Du gabst mir so viel! Du gabst mir dein Vertrauen! Du gabst mir die Liebe zu den FASD-Kindern! Du gabst mir mehr, als ich in so kurzen Sätzen schreiben kann. Sometimes, I was embarrassed, when I read the love to your childs and so I learned to love them. Manchmal wr ich beschämt, wenn ich die Liebe zu den Kindern in deinen Zeilen las und so lernte ich die Liebe zu ihnen. And often I laughed loud about your great humor. Oh, Goodness! You looks like a gentility english Lady, but you has been so full of life. Und oft habe ich über deinen großen Humor gelacht. Du meine Güte. Du siehst aus, wie eine vornehme englische Lady, aber du warst so voller Leben. It was a pleasure to work with you. You never postulated for everything. You never expected, that some work has to do. Sometimes you ask on our list: "Can everybody do this or that." If anything was ready, you said: "O, great!" Es war ein Vergnügen, mit dir zu arbeiten. Du hast nie etwas verlangt oder erwartet. Manchmal hast du gefragt: "Kann jemand dies oder das tun?" Wenn irgendetwas getan war, dann sagtest du: "O, Spitze." What can I say? It is so much. I need you and I wish, that you are here. But I will accept all. You changed the world, did you know this? Was soll ich sagen? Es ist so viel. Ich brauche dich und ich wünschte, du wärest hier. Aber ich will es so annehmen, wie es ist. Weißt du eigentlich, dass Du die Welt verändert hast? So, I end with a great poem, I think, this was your way to live: Other way has some resting places in the sun, to stay awhile. But this way is YOUR way! And now it is valid! Now do not fail! Weep, weep if you can, but don't lament. The way has choosen YOU and you may be thankful! Anderer Weg hat Rastplätze in der Sonne, sich zu begegnen. Aber dieser Weg ist der deine. Und es gilt jetzt. JETZT darfst du nicht versagen. Weine, weine wenn du kannst aber klage nicht Dich wählte der Weg und du darfst danken Author unknown Your friend Sigrid Reinhardt
Wed Sep 22 14:34:22 2004 from
Gloria, Peter and Matthew Armistead <fasawareuk@blueyonder.co.uk>
From: England
Relationship: FAS friend of 10 years
Child: An adopted son
To a dear friend who will be missed more than she will ever know. Ann was an amazing woman, she was always there, when ever needed. Ann always put others before herself. She has been our friend, support and strength for over 10 years. Life is going to be empty with out her. If I know Ann she is still working hard, making them listen in heaven. Rest in peace dear Ann Love always Gloria, Peter and Matthew.
Wed Sep 22 14:38:29 2004 from
Bonnie Buxton <ogrady@axxent.ca>
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Relationship: through FASlink and International FAS Awareness Day
Child: yes
I had the pleasure of meeting Ann Gibson in November, 1999, in Grand Rapids, Michigan, USA, shortly after the first International FAS Awareness Day on September 9, 1999. Ann and Alan were at the FEN conference and it was a delight to finally meet both of them, as by that time we had been corresponding online for more than two years. I had known how brilliant, determined, creative, compassionate and hard-working she was, but was not prepared for her beauty and charisma. I could see how she could charm people into doing what she wanted; she reminded me somewhat of the late Princess Diana in both appearance and her ability to touch others. She also had a wonderful sense of humour and seemed not to take herself terribly seriously. She and Alan were a delightful couple, and even after grown children and foster children were still very much in love. I interviewed her by phone at length for my book, "Damaged Angels," and she is featured on several pages. This is only a fragment of a much longer tape which I will always treasure. Many things have happened to me on this FASD journey which have convinced me that we make a mistake when we think that angels are in heaven, strumming harps and sitting on clouds. True angels are among us, every day of our lives, and we often fail to recognize it. "Anni" was such an angel -- she truly did change the world by her actions, by her goodness, kindness and love. These parts of Ann can never die.
Wed Sep 22 17:09:39 2004 from
Claudia Berker <ckbarker@ev1.net>
From: Texas, US
Relationship: Through FASD
Child: yes
We mourn the loss of Ann greatly. She has done so much to further the prevention of and intervention in FASD that her good works will continue on for decades to come. Untold children will be spared FASDs because of her work. I have a sneaky suspicion that Ann is lobbying God and all the angels on behalf of the cause at this very moment. My love and prayers go out to her family. Through her emails, I feel like I already know Sinja. I've been so proud of her accomplishments in horsemanship, and I know Ann was overjoyed at Sinja's successes. God bless you. Claudia
Wed Sep 22 17:10:45 2004 from
Lori Brown <lardethb@msn.com>
From: South Dakota, USA
Relationship: Through faslink
Child: I have 7 alcohol affected children.
Ann was always such a sweet person, always willing to help and to give advice. She was a good friend and a wonderful advocate against FASD. She will be missed. Lori
Wed Sep 22 17:31:24 2004 from
Arlene Auerbach <arlie18@aol.ccom>
From: New Jersey, USA
Relationship: Through FASD
Child: Yes a daughter
Another Angel has gone home to rest. Ann's work here on earth is done. Her love and dedication will live on in the FASD World, in her family and friends. God must have other plans for her now. She will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
Wed Sep 22 17:48:31 2004 from
Lesley McKillop <whatsup150@shaw.ca>
From: Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Relationship: Faslink/fasworld
Child: Daughter Debbie 20 yrs
To Ann's Family & Friends, I offer my deepest sympathy. Ann, to me, was the 'pilar'of strength,in advocating for all persons, afflicted with FASD. I have known Ann, via faslink, for a few years now. I always found Ann to be so kind and gentle, always putting others before herself. Many, many times, we would 'chat, via the internet, in regards to our children's great accomplishments, difficulties, and the need for 'support' for each other. I will miss my dear friend tremendously. I grieve along with all those who knew this wonderful person. Ann, please rest in peace, knowing we will continue your mission in 'advocating' for the 'rights & recognition' of FASD persons & this terrible disability,and obtaining the 'supports & services' that they deserve. Please know how much Ann was loved and admired. Love to you all! Ann will always be near my heart. Love Lesley Lots of Hugs & Kisses!
Wed Sep 22 18:10:35 2004 from
Deborah Dupre <duprevent@bigpond.com>
From: Tasmania
Relationship: FASDAY list serve
Child: Yes, 2
Dedicated to our sister, Ann Gibson, a world leader in Prevention and Peace, To Ann's family and all who knew Ann's strength, courage and wisdom. To Ann whose Spirit will continue to inspire us to know the "Brave and Startling Truth." (Maya Angelou) Love and peace, Deborah Dupre' A Brave and Startling Truth Maya Angelou We, this people, on a small and lonely planet Traveling through casual space Past aloof stars, across the way of indifferent suns To a destination where all signs tell us It is possible and imperative that we learn A brave and startling truth And when we come to it To the day of peacemaking When we release our fingers From fists of hostility And allow the pure air to cool our palms When we come to it When the curtain falls on the minstrel show of hate And faces sooted with scorn and scrubbed clean When battlefields and coliseum No longer rake our unique and particular sons and daughters Up with the bruised and bloody grass To lie in identical plots in foreign soil When the rapacious storming of the churches The screaming racket in the temples have ceased When the pennants are waving gaily When the banners of the world tremble Stoutly in the good, clean breeze When we come to it When we let the rifles fall from our shoulders And children dress their dolls in flags of truce When land mines of death have been removed And the aged can walk into evenings of peace When religious ritual is not perfumed By the incense of burning flesh And childhood dreams are not kicked awake By nightmares of abuse When we come to it Then we will confess that not the Pyramids With their stones set in mysterious perfection Nor the Gardens of Babylon Hanging as eternal beauty In our collective memory Not the Grand Canyon Kindled into delicious color By Western sunsets Nor the Danube, flowing its blue soul into Europe Not the sacred peak of Mount Fuji Stretching to the Rising Sun Neither Father Amazon nor Mother Mississippi who, without favor, Nurture all creatures in the depths and on the shores These are not the only wonders of the world When we come to it We, this people, on this minuscule and kithless globe Who reach daily for the bomb, the blade and Yet who petition in the dark for tokens of peace We, this people on this mote of matter In whose mouths abide cankerous words Which challenge our very existence Yet out of those same mouths Come songs of such exquisite sweetness That the heart falters in its labor And the body is quieted into awe We, this people, on this small and drifting planet Whose hands can strike with such abandon That in a twinkling, life is sapped from the living Yet those same hands can touch with such healing, irresistible tenderness That the haughty neck is happy to bow And the proud back is glad to bend Out of such chaos, of such contradiction We learn that we are neither devils nor divines When we come to it We, this people, on this wayward, floating body Created on this earth, of this earth Have the power to fashion for this earth A climate where every man and every woman Can live freely without sanctimonious piety Without crippling fear When we come to it We must confess that we are the possible We are the miraculous, the true wonder of this world That is when, and only when We come to it. Maya Angelou Preventionist Deborah Dupre', B.Sc, MA.ED, ED.SP. Duprevent 202 Cloudy Bay Rd. Lunawanna, Tasmania, 7150 Tel: +61 3 6293 2039 or 0403 891 179 Email: duprevent@bigpond.com Visit: www.duprevent.com Duprevent: Empowering families, friends and businesses to succeed in helping addicted people harming self and others born and unborn to get help in a safe, dignified, compassionate way - before hitting bottom.
Wed Sep 22 18:29:04 2004 from
Margie Fulton <fulton@northroute.net>
From: Ontario, Canada
Relationship: Internet & FASD Warrior
Child: Yes: 30 yr. old son
Dearest Ann.......how we will miss you and your bubbling heart and encouraging words........your enthusiasm, your courage....your great love for your family and strong determination to do something to stop the ravages of FASD......... You have been a wonderful light in the struggle to make the world pay attention to the plight of individuals living with FASD - and their families. Thank you, Ann, for all that you have given us - you have shown us how to fight for things we believe in, and I believe you have shown us how to face death too. May we all learn from your great example, and may the memories of your smile, your laughter, your courage, your compassion, your determination, your spirit.....may they inspire us to find greater depths within ourselves.... and be a comfort in the days ahead. You are free to fly with the butterflies wherever you desire now, dearest Ann. No more pain for you....and for that we a grateful. May your precious family in some way sense your presence with them as they try to go on with their lives, and may they find comfort in the wonderful memories of having you as wife, mother, grandmother, and friend. Much love, Margie Marvin's mom NWOntario
Wed Sep 22 18:33:21 2004 from
Fetal Alcohol Support Trust <fast@xtra.co.nz>
From: New Zealand
Relationship: faslink
Child: many of them
it is always sad to loose someone who has so much passion for this cause. Our thoughts go out to her family at this time who can take comfort in knowing that Ann will not be forgotten for the dedicated, caring, and passion she has shown in the FAS world. we have read many posts from people all around the world including our own, but one that does remain with us is that God has something planned for Ann above. i hope he realises that with her passion she will be one awesome pupil, teacher, and carer what ever the task is he has in store for her. He had also better be wary because she will tackle it with gusto and even shake the heavens to ensure that the right things are done, in the right way and that those he has called her to help can depend on her vigilantly fighting for their rights. You go girl!! and clear the way for those of us who follow you.
Wed Sep 22 18:49:11 2004 from
Carol Peavey <Kidranch2000@aol.com>
From: Washington, USA
Relationship: through messages on Fasaholics
Child: We have adopted 6 kids with FASD
The last message I remember from Ann on Fasaholics impressed me so much. Every time I saw anything to do with "Nemo" I would say a prayer for Ann. I was so impressed with such a WONDERFUL sense of humor. I pray that I can keep a similar sense of humor in dealing with my troop of FASD kids and whatever else comes my way in life. She was an inspiration to me and I am so sorry and full of sympathy and prayers for all of you in her family. I didn't know Ann personally but I have been blessed and encouraged by her life.
Wed Sep 22 20:01:09 2004 from
Barbara Hernandez & Family <Barbara Hernandez>
From: Florida
Relationship: 2yrs
Child: YES 3
Wed Sep 22 21:57:38 2004 from
Annika Thomsen <lillyklaire@aol.com>
From: Germany
Relationship: FASworld Germany
Child: not at home but in school
Can't believe. I'll miss her jokes, her way to fight against FASD and her wonderful laughing!! Annika
Wed Sep 22 22:09:14 2004 from
Annie Packingham <Wrytegirl3@aol.com>
From: Las Vegas Nevada USA
Relationship: through FASWorld
Child: yes two boys
Ann was one of the first people that let me know that the crys of FAS heartache bounced from all corners of the world. her strenght was like an elixer to those of us so tempted to let the waves of trouble wash over us. Ann is the blessing by which I find hope and I plegde to do a good thing in her name every day as she always helped anyone that asked for help
Wed Sep 22 23:36:49 2004 from
Cat
Wed Sep 22 23:50:24 2004 from
Cathy Petrie <petrie@mtaonline.net>
From: Alaska
Relationship: Olderfas
Child: yes
The Rose Beyond the Wall A rose once grew where all could see Sheltered beside a garden wall And, as the days past swiftly by It spread its branches, straight and tall One day, a beam of light shone through A crevice that had opened wide The rose bent gently toward its warmth Then passed beyond to the other side Now, you who deeply feel its loss Be comforted, the rose blooms there It’s beauty even greater now Nurtured by God’s own loving care. Author unknown
Thu Sep 23 02:48:28 2004 from
Gila <GiselaMichalowski@web.de>
From: Germany
Relationship: FASworld friend
Child: yes, a son 19 years old, a daughter 11 years old, a daughter 10 years old
Ann, you allways be in my heart. Du hast wieder Licht in unsere Familie gebracht, nachdem wir total ausgebrannt waren und nicht mehr wußten wohin mit unseren Sorgen. Deine Ratschläge, deine Hilfe haben uns ein weiteres Leben mit unseren Kindern ermöglicht. Danke dir dafür. Thank you for all Uwe, Florian, Michel, Monique, Marie-Ann, Fabian, Patricia, Petra und Gisela
Thu Sep 23 03:09:09 2004 from
Ina <yournet24@yahoo.de>
From: Germany
Relationship: FASworld Germany
Child: Yes - Michael and Dana
Ann - you've touched my soul ... I miss you so much and I will never forget you !!!
Thu Sep 23 05:26:27 2004 from
Paul and Helen Gibson <thebiffery@tiscali.co.uk>
From: england
Relationship: Cousin
We heard the sad news this week when Alan Ann's husband phoned us I have not cried as I think of how much love and life Ann had for others and them for her .We loved her sense of humour her compassion and the memories of a wonderful holiday in Germany filled with laughter kindness and hospitality .In a world that is so self absorbed Ann thought of others and what could she do to make a change . With all our love Paul,Helen +girls Sharon Chris +Jon Phil Pam Nicola Bryan and David Gibson
Thu Sep 23 06:10:51 2004 from
Peggy Seo Oba <psoba@aol.com>
From: USA
Relationship: FASLink
Child: Aunt to 3 children
Our loss and the World's loss. She was an untiring, valiant warrior for children with FAS and other disabilities. She graciously shared her family with us and allowed us to share in her joy and enthusiasm for them. She will always be remembered with respect, love and a smile. May God bless you always, Ann...
Thu Sep 23 06:47:49 2004 from
Jodee Kulp <jodee@connetworks.com>
From: Minnesota, USA
Relationship: Internet
Child: Adult Daughter
Each step she took for FASD Ann moved Europe one notch closer to understanding persons with FASD and awareness and possibilities for prevention. Every key stroke she shared in love and thoughts and wisdom, she moved one international family closer to understanding a loved one, changing thinking and supporting each other. Thank you for all your care and stamina - Ann's wisdom remains in the archives of FASLINK a great blessing to many.
Thu Sep 23 06:56:29 2004 from
Georgiana Wilton <georgiana.wilton@fammed.wisc.edu>
From: Wisconsin-USA
Relationship: FASLink, Conferences
Ann, you reached an international audience in your quest for increased understanding of FASD. You will be remembered form many things, including courage, humor, and grace. Your spirit remains...
Thu Sep 23 06:59:22 2004 from
Sharon A. <mamaczar@comcast.net>
From: Minnesota, USA
Relationship: Internet
Child: Grandson Matthew
Ann, Thank You for your dedication and hard work in our FASWorld. Thank You for sharing your wonderful family with us. You are our brightest star in the sky, you touched so many lives and we are so grateful. We mourn your loss, but will forever celebrate your life. Sharon
Thu Sep 23 07:06:35 2004 from
Kari Fletcher <7fletchers@charter.net>
From: Minnesota, USA
Relationship: faslink
Child: 2 children
I was deeply touched when I read Ann's poem called "Andy" on faslink- written after a stranger said that Andy "should have been gassed." This world can be so dark because it is so full of ignorance... Ann was a bright light in it and many were drawn to her message like moths. I was one of them and I will miss her insightful posts on FASlink. I was inspired to write a poem as well and I will post it here in tribute to my children, to Ann and her children, and to everyone who struggles to light the way...it is called "Angels Danced." I saw a greeting card with the words “The Angels Danced on the Day you were Born…” and I wondered what kind of music was playing as they danced for you. Was it a woeful sad ballad that spoke of the confusion, violence and addiction that surrounded your birth? Was it a marching song that told of your persistence and strength to overcome and conquer? Was it a beautiful lullaby that helped you to sleep in a world that was not very nurturing and soft? Was there an orchestra full of trumpets and cymbals majestically announcing the arrival of a special child of God? Maybe the song had a wild rock beat, the kind of song that you now love to dance to, and maybe the angels twirled and giggled as they danced much like you do now. I wondered if they danced again on the day you entered foster care. Or the day we adopted you. I know that I danced on that day. I danced to your song…a song that only you can play, a song that God allowed me to hear but that not everybody hears yet. Your daddy and I love to dance to your song and we will keep inviting others to dance with us. Your song is your gift to us and we are blessed to be able to hear it. It was your beautiful song that the angels heard that day, wasn’t it? Keep playing, sweetheart…they are still dancing! Copyright 2004 Kari Fletcher
Thu Sep 23 07:32:41 2004 from
Barry and May Stanley <bysy@sympatico.ca>
From: Ont. Canada.
Relationship: We didn't
Child: Yes
With her example, we will carry on where she left off.
Thu Sep 23 07:53:56 2004 from
Heather G. Cherrier <cherryheather@netscape.net>
From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Relationship: I knew her through her postings on faslink. She had great spirit and caring and will be missed by all. I just wish I had known her personnally. May she be at peace.
Child: no
Thu Sep 23 08:39:08 2004 from
April Swonger <adswonger@nnu.edu>
From: Idaho/USA
I had only been on faslink for a short time, but Ann was always so open and caring for others, that her love for her family and FAS family and her fun and goodness touched me. I am glad I have known her, if only through the internet. She was a good example to me as a parent.
Thu Sep 23 08:59:43 2004 from
Corinne Barnwell <wbarnwell@cox.net>
From: Louisiana, USA
Relationship: OlderFAS
Child: yes
We reared a beautiful daughter with FASD...she died of alcohol and drug poisoning 5 years ago. Ann's courage and hard work to get her society to recognize FASD are important to me, even though she lived thousands of miles away.
Thu Sep 23 09:05:04 2004 from
Stephen and Barbara Neafcy <FASFlight@msn.com>
From: Iowa
Relationship: From FASLink
Child: I Myself (Stephen Neafcy am a FASD Adult)
Ann Gibson is so amazing, even with her going home to the Lord you can still feel her Love. Ann Gibson touched my heart like no other, she will have a home deep within my heart. Ann you have touched so many hearts and helped pave the road for our Special Ones. Rest now and enjoy your eternal life with God,your legacy on earth will continue and live on with your passion. Ann Gibson we Love you!
Thu Sep 23 09:38:45 2004 from
Diane Kerchner <dkerchner@calfas.org>
From: California, USA
Relationship: Online FASD
Child: Yes, Rusty, age 11
Ann was a joy and an inspiration to me. Her passion for educating others about FASD never dimmed. She awoke to advocacy and went to bed with the same active prayer on her lips; end FASD in my lifetime. Tis a prayer we may all continue in her name. Ann's love of life exuded from her pores and was evidenced by her ready smile. She knew how to open doors and make colleagues; I'm proud to be one.
Thu Sep 23 10:41:07 2004 from
Judy Sutton <judysutton@sympatico.ca>
From: Ontario, Canada
Relationship: faslink
Child: yes
God has taken home an Angel. I thank you Ann for all the help you did in bringing FASD to the attention of all. You were a great crusader for "our" children, and now, we the ones left behind will pick up your torch and continue the fight to help prevent the most preventable of all disabilities among children. You will be missed by all. To your family and friends, God Bless To You all, and know that Ann is in the hearts of all whom have met her:) *hugs* Judy Sutton Ottawa, Canada
Thu Sep 23 11:29:51 2004 from
Thelma Vincent <thelmant@telusplanet.net>
From: Alberta, Canada
Relationship: faslink
Child: two adopted
Ann: You are a vital part of our International FAS body. With your passing; it is like a part of our body has been ripped away from us. You symbolize the fear we all have; that we too might pass on and our children left without our caring protection. In memoriam, may we all continue to work unitedly to promote the plight of our children, young adults, and older adults. Thelma
Thu Sep 23 11:35:10 2004 from
Jackie P <moxiemaniacs@sbcglobal.net>
From: CT, USA
Relationship: Thru FASlink
Child: Yes
Ann will be greatly missed by all of us on FASlink...her posts about Sinja were a joy to read & gave us all hope for our kids. I know that Ann's spirit will be with us always...
Thu Sep 23 12:52:14 2004 from
Roberta Humberstone <yukonrobertah@yahoo.com>
From: Yukon, Canada
Relationship: FASDAY, FASaholics, FASlink
Child: 10 year old daughter
Ann reached across the world with such compassion. She is an inspiration to us all to reach out and touch each other. May her visions continue in our quest to teach the whole world about the dangers of alcohol to the unborn. FASworld is slowly becoming a reality. Ann left us with a job to do and she will be guiding us along the way.
Thu Sep 23 17:30:32 2004 from
Dianne O'Connor <doconno2@nycap.rr.com>
From: NEw York, USA
Relationship: Took the FAS course together offered by University of Wisconsin
Child: yes, 6 of them
Dear sweet Ann, May God look over you and let you know that your fight for people who have been affected by FASD will not be forgotten. You are an everyday hero. God bless you and your family.
Thu Sep 23 18:45:34 2004 from
The Allen Family <allenfarm@snip.net>
From: nj
Relationship: faslink, fas conferences and she visited our home
Child: we have five
Dear Dear Ann, Oh, how we all will miss you even as we rejoice for you that you have eternal peace and joy and love. For you it will be a continuation of your life with us because that is what you did: spread love and joy wherever you went. You touched many lives and we are so blessed that you not only touched the lives of each one of us, but shared our home. What you have given us will live forever. We send you our hugs and our prayers, our joys, and yes our tears. Many years ago my mother told me that when you lose someone the measure of your pain is the measure of your love. The only way not to hurt is not to love. So, I thank God for our pain and pray for all those who love you that we may continue on the path you have laid out for us.
Fri Sep 24 01:57:16 2004 from
Marie MIlatz <marie.m@yahoo.de>
From: morsbach germany
Relationship: FAS forum..
Child: yes 2
An rud a líonas an tsúil líonann sé an croí. und ich bin mir sicher dass du in viele herzen weiter leben wirst... marie
Fri Sep 24 09:27:35 2004 from
Karen Smith <degoawadihsnye@sixnationsns.com>
From: North America
Relationship: FASDAY
I never had the benefit of getting to know Ann personally, but always read her posts concerning Sinja and the work she did. She was most inspiring. What a link that I was fortunate to have even if it was through the internet. Wishing her family peace and strength, to endure their great loss
Fri Sep 24 15:42:30 2004 from
CARLYN AND JACK CONOVER <carljack@dandy.net>
From: NEW JERSEY, USA
Relationship: FASLINK
Child: 3 GRANDCHILDREN
Ann became a "BEAM OF LIGHT" for all individuals who had children and/or grandchildren with FASD. She began her journey a long time ago and continued until her leaving of her family and all of us. Her legacy will live on,not only in Europe but in all of the World. Tank You Ann for all you did for little and big, weak and strong, for those who are already here and those still to come. YOUR LEGACY WLL LIVE ON IN OTHERS AND ALL THE WORK YOU HAVE DONE. Our Love and Prayers tot he Family Carlyn And Jack Conover
Sat Sep 25 08:19:01 2004 from
Gibson <sharron1@web.de>
From: germany
Relationship: she´s my mum
Child: sinja
i want to say a very big thank you to all your loving words and caring thoughts on my mum-its unbelievable! after reading your letters our hearts a filled with pride, thank you,its a big help! I wish she were here, luv you mum, shim+family
Sat Sep 25 10:47:06 2004 from
Wm. and Barbara McArthur <wkbjmc@att.net>
From: Illinois USA
Relationship: Olderfas/faslink
Child: yes, 3
Ann did much to work towards a better world for FAS families and individuals, her hard work and efforts will be truly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with her and her family. We will have masses said for the repose of her soul. God Bless. The Wm. McArthur family
Sat Sep 25 11:29:50 2004 from
<Patty Hawn and Famiely>
From: randalepatty@highland.net
Relationship: faslink
Child: yes i have 2
ANN was very special she cared about children not only hers but ours and im sure she well recieve many rewards in heaven because she has paved the way for our kids to have better understanding.
Sat Sep 25 19:55:33 2004 from
Ramona Moore <rammoore@confederationc.on.ca>
From: Thunder Bay Ontario Canada
Relationship: FASDAY List
Child: No Person With FASD
Anne Though I Never Really knew you well I would just like to say on behalf of us with FASD Thank You for the work you did on behalf of all of us with FASD, You are now our eternal FAS Butterfly and fasstar to watch over us all in the Family of FASD as we continue the work you and others started 6 years ago with the first FASDAY. And furthering awareness of FASD. Thank You For What You Have Done For Us All!
Sat Sep 25 23:04:14 2004 from
Sue Miers <miers_1@optusnet.com.au>
From: Australia
Relationship: FASDay list
Child: Yes
In Memory of Ann - a special poem from an Australian poet Nan Witcomb taken from her anthology "The Thoughts of Nanushka" "To mourn to long for those we love is self indulgent - but to honour their memory with a promise to live a little better for having known them gives pupose to their life and some reason for their death...." Good bye Anne and love and condolonces to her family and friends. Sue Miers and Committee members National Organisation for FAS & Related Disorders Australia
Sun Sep 26 06:45:24 2004 from
Husband To ANN WOW WHAT A RIDE
thanks for all your mails of love for my beautiful wife ANN i would like to share with you all the letter of love i read out at ANNS service AN ODE TO MY BEAUTIFUL WIFE For 33 Years ANN And i Had Something Very Special She Was My Wife Friend And My Lover Mother To Our 7Children And aVery Special Nana To Our 4 Grandkids ANN Taught Me To Love And How To Give Love This Past Week I Have Found Out How Many ANN Has Help Through World Please Take This Legacy From ANNS Passing If You Show Love Happiness Houmour It Will Spread Over The Oceans And Maybe The World Would Be A Better Place And Next Time It Rains And You Shelter Remember That My Beautiful Wife Can Never Walk In The Rain Again Good Bye My Beautiful Cowslip I Will Always Miss Your Smile But I Will Never Forget That It Was You That Tought Me To Love Thanks You Are Simply The best
Sun Sep 26 06:47:48 2004 from
Husband To ANN WOW WHAT A RIDE <gibby@fasworld.de>
Relationship: Read Above
Child: Yes
thanks for all your mails of love for my beautiful wife ANN i would like to share with you all the letter of love i read out at ANNS service AN ODE TO MY BEAUTIFUL WIFE For 33 Years ANN And i Had Something Very Special She Was My Wife Friend And My Lover Mother To Our 7Children And aVery Special Nana To Our 4 Grandkids ANN Taught Me To Love And How To Give Love This Past Week I Have Found Out How Many ANN Has Help Through World Please Take This Legacy From ANNS Passing If You Show Love Happiness Houmour It Will Spread Over The Oceans And Maybe The World Would Be A Better Place And Next Time It Rains And You Shelter Remember That My Beautiful Wife Can Never Walk In The Rain Again Good Bye My Beautiful Cowslip I Will Always Miss Your Smile But I Will Never Forget That It Was You That Tought Me To Love Thanks You Are Simply The best
Sun Sep 26 17:25:24 2004 from
Lois Ross <qilriq@permafrost.com>
From: N.W. T., Canada
Relationship: from Faslink, her e-mails
Sun Sep 26 17:28:17 2004 from
Lois Ross <qilriq@permafrost.com>
From: N.W.T., Canada
Relationship: Faslink
Child: 10 step-children (adults)
I will miss hearing from Ann. I was always overwhelmed to hear of all the work she did for FASD in Germany and Europe. She will be missed so much. Thank you for her life.
Wed Sep 29 10:49:38 2004 from
Heidrun Michelis <guh.michaelis@t-online.de>
From: germany
Relationship: FAS-World
Child: No
I will miss Ann an say many thanks for best co-operation. Heidrun Michaelis, vice-president, Guttempler in Deutschland (good templars of germany)
Thu Sep 30 10:14:24 2004 from
DAVID C SMITH <DISCUSDAVE66@AOL.COM>
From: OLDHAM UK
Relationship: ANN IS MY AUNTY
Child: NO
AUNTY ANN ILL NEVER FORGET HOW YOU AND ALAN AND THE KIDS LOOKED AFTER ME AN MY MATES XMAS 1984.I CAN STILL REMEMBER THAT LAUGH OF YOURS IN MY HEAD, AND ALL THE CADBURYS FLAKES YOU SENT ME FOR FROM THE NAAFI.GOOD TIMES OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ILL NEVER FORGET.PLEASE SEND NAN OUR REGARDS,AND GRANDAD. GOD BLESS YOU AUNTY ANN,,NOW YOUR AN ANGEL IN PARADISE, ALL OUR THOUGHTS AND LOVE DAVID AND SARAH SMITH.XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Sun Oct 3 07:45:46 2004 from
Laura Chapman <dustydon@mindsync.com>
From: California, USA
Relationship: fasadopt
Child: yes - 2
Knowing your warmth and love for everyone, you are now an angel wrapping your loving arms around us all, especially our children. God bless you and your family. Laura
Fri Oct 22 06:20:47 2004 from
Irm Wills <irmwills@webfam.de>
From: Germany
Relationship: FASworld Deutschland
Child: yes
It's now over four weeks that Ann has left us and I still can't believe it. I have never met a person that has been so popular without changing the nature. I admired her a lot and always wondered from where she got the power and the ability to fascinate so many people. She set an example to many of us. Shortly before Ann died she asked me to take care of her website. And I did, seeing everyday the counter's figures increasind so rapidly, but I can never tell her that more and more people are looking for the information Ann has made availabe here in Germany. So I will continue just murmuring a message to her, maybe she can hear me. Love from Irm
Thu Nov 11 14:15:53 2004 from
Antonia Rathbun <antoniarathbun@childrenscenter.org>
From: Vancouver, Washington, USA
Relationship: email
Child: yes...adult
Ann you were a rare link in a divided world. Ich werde Ihnen doch vermissen weil Sie haben so viel for FAS in Deutschland geschafft mit Eure Kollegin und Familien. Das Licht wieder bringen nachdem Alle ausgebrannt sind durch herzvoller Ratschlaege und Hilfe ist richtige Engelswerk. Bitte vergessen Uns nicht vor Gott dass diese Schaffen wietergehen. I wish I'd known you better, and am touched by how you nurtured the hearts of others. My regards to your lovely family...keeping you in my thoughts.
Mon Nov 15 06:09:52 2004 from
Dawn <dawngelhart@yahoo.de>
From: Germany
Relationship: She was my MUM
Child: No
Mum, I just want everybody to know how much I love you and that we will never forget you..... I miss you so much... why??? I love you mummy
Tue Nov 23 10:03:34 2004 from
alan gibson <alangibson53@yahoo.de>
From: germany
Relationship: My Beautiful Wife
Child: Sinja
Thanks ANN God Bless YOU I Will Miss For Ever xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx